PURPOSE: AS UNIQUE AS A FINGER PRINT
IT’S A WAY OF LIFE, NO MATTER WHAT’S THROWN YOUR WAY
AUTHOR: DAVID BEHARALL
MAY 2024
PURPOSE: AS UNIQUE AS A FINGER PRINT
Imagine standing on the edge of a cliff, or just peering over a balcony, and suddenly feeling it—a little nudge in your gut. That's how purpose feels to me.
FINDING PURPOSE IS ACTUALLY QUITE HARD
Purpose isn't solely about being ambitious or ticking off goals. It's about delving deep, understanding who you are, and what truly matters to you. Having experienced my fair share of ups and downs in business, sports, and life in general, I know first-hand that finding purpose is actually quite hard.
YOU NEED TO BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF
It requires some soul-searching and a healthy dose of honesty with yourself. Purpose isn't a one-size-fits-all. Purpose it’s yours, it’s all about you - and it’s as unique as a fingerprint.
IT’S HELPFUL WHEN LIFE GET’S A BIT DARK
For me, purpose has also been like a guiding light when life gets a bit dark. It's what keeps me going when the everything looks and feels … impossible!
A WAY OF LIFE, NO MATTER WHAT’S THROWN YOUR WAY
Purpose is all about that unwavering belief that no matter what life throws your way, you have a reason to keep going. In the end, purpose isn't just a fleeting feeling—it's a way of life. It’s vital in dark times and a guide when things are going well.
How To Find Purpose: 5 Simple Steps
Finding your purpose might seem daunting, but it's achievable with some practical steps:
- 01 Self-reflection: Take time to think about what truly matters to you. What activities make you feel fulfilled? What values do you hold dear? Understanding yourself is the first step in uncovering your purpose.
- 02 Be honest: Don't sugar-coat things. Acknowledge your strengths, weaknesses, and the things that genuinely interest you. Your purpose should align with your authentic self.
- 03 Seek clarity: Purpose isn't a grand, abstract concept; it's about knowing what drives you on a day-to-day basis. Reflect on what makes you get out of bed in the morning or keeps you going when things get tough.
- 04 Experiment: Don't expect to find your purpose overnight. Try out different activities, hobbies, or career paths to see what resonates with you. Sometimes, the best way to discover your purpose is through exploration.
- 05 Stay open-minded: Your purpose may evolve over time, and that's okay. Stay open to new experiences and opportunities that might lead you in unexpected directions.
Finding your purpose is an ongoing process, not a one-time revelation. Approach it with patience, practicality, and a willingness to learn about yourself along the way.
Purpose: We all need it, we always have, and we always will.